Blog Assignment 2

Option 2

Some experts and academicians consider that different cultures play different roles in determining how much of people’s private selves they will show in public. And the study also shows that the first four minutes of expression are pretty important to make a friend or not in the future.

In my country, China, people feel shy to communicate with others for the first time in tradition. They do not kiss each other for the first time and do not show the enthusiasm to a stranger because they think that action is not polite for the first time meeting. Moreover, they also hide their emotions in order to make the first time expression of themselves implicitly because they do think the one who has an inturned character is mature and they do not think the one who has few words are hard going. Therefore, people do not have the custom of showing their emotions immediately.

However, people’s opinions are changing recently. They are demonstrative of their affection for others in public nowadays. For example, businessmen hold hands to show the honest and friendly to their cooperation partners. Also, friends use a hug to show the close friendship even though they do not kiss each others as Spanish do. In conclusion, the first time expression is very important and it may decide your succeed or not in career and life. Therefore, to choose a feat way to make first expression is useful and necessary.